Non-attachment; non-identification of Self with son, wife, home and the rest; and constant even-mindedness amidst both the desirable and the undesirable events in life. . .

asaktiḥ = being without attachment; anabhiśvaṅgaḥ = being without association; putra = for son; dārā = wife; gṛhādiṣu = home, etc.; nityaṃ = constant; ca = also; samacittatvaṃ = equilibrium; iṣṭa = the desirable; aniṣṭa = and undesirable; upapattiṣu = having obtained;